Saturday, 1 December 2012

How do I make myself interesting on the phone?


How do I talk to a girl on the phone? Is that a problem to you? The conversation that you have on the phone can be divided into two parts: 
1) How good a listener you are 
2) How good a speaker you are 


What are the dead ends in a phone conversation? 
- 'So, what else', 
- 'hmm, what's going on in your life?' (after you have asked that once already) 
- The awkward silence during which you both take time to breathe. 

Such things are also the dead ends when you are chatting with a girl. Guys, mostly, start asking the girl to ask them anything, which shows that you are very boring. 

The first part of a conversation starts with the guy.

- You have to talk first. 


- You have to entertain her first. 


- You have to get as many topics to talk as you can. Don't expect her to pop out with some new topic; she might, but it's your job. 


- You have to be as quick as you can with your thinking and wit. 


- Crack good jokes. 


- The more she laughs, the more she is enjoying the conversation. 


- So make sure you make her laugh from time to time. 


- Crack dirty jokes if you want to, but always make yourself or any of your friend the target of those jokes, and not her.


- You are the one who changes the conversation. 


- Select and choose wisely how much time you have to give to one topic. 


Note: Don't stick to one topic for too long or else the conversation will become about that given topic only. 

For example, you are talking about some Sitcom, don't just keep talking about it for hours, because it's your favorite sitcom or Television show. Talk about it for maximum 10 minutes. 

- Talk about her life as much as you can. 


- Keep pushing her to tell you about her life as much as you can. Girls reveal a lot if being pushed, because they have a tendency to share and talk about their lives. 


- Don't hesitate in asking anything. (exceptions are always there). 

For example - if you want to know deeper, more complex stuff about her past relationship, don't think that it's crossing the line. That's what every guy thinks and stops himself at. On the contrary, women share excessively when directly asked. 

- Keep assuring her every time after she reveals an embarrassing truth or anecdote from her past. Tell her that it's alright, or that it's good that she is letting stuff out, and similar stuff. 


- Like I said, don't just be a listener but also a talker. 


- Create a warm aura and make her feel that she can trust you with everything because you are mature and understand her situation. 

3 comments:

  1. Dear Ehis, Thank you for your patience with me during my custom spell casting.

    During the middle for February my long time on again off again girlfriend broke up with me. She had some major problems going on in her life at the time and I was receiving some of the blame for them and she just felt it would be better if we were not together. And in typical fashion she handled the break up poorly and completely ignored me as she always did during prior break ups. I also had 2 recent deaths in my family (1 happened before we broke up and the other happened about 2 months later). So I had a lot of stress going on in my life. I hired Seductive Spells around the middle of February; they had a money back guarantee which made me feel that they must be good at what they do. So I went into this thinking that I would have my ex back in about 4 weeks. Well as time dragged on I started to feel as if this was not going to work at all. During all of this she moved, her phone number was disconnected and I thought this was over for good. In fact I decided that I had better get used to being single again and I tried to forget about her. I started hanging out with my friends more, I even wrote to Ehis requesting my money back. Ehis told me that she felt that this would work, that I had to remain positive and she felt that things would turn around. Throughout all of this Ehis always would amazingly get back to me quickly when I would send her an e-mail, usually within a few hours of the email being sent. As I had been pretty negative about this throughout most of the last 4 weeks I decided to follow her advice and let them continue casting for me. I completely tried to put my ex out of my mind as best I could and kept myself pretty busy, something that I had not done much of since we had broken up. Memorial Day night she called me and told me that she wanted us back together, that she missed me a lot, and that I had to let her know right then and there as we were on the phone if we were going to get back together. I was shocked, each time we did get back together before it was always me that made the 1st move; never had she made the 1st move. We have seen each other almost every night since then and things are getting back to where they used to be. I have to tell you it’s still really hard to believe. She is pretty nervous talking around me sometimes since we have gotten back together and I notice that she is trying to be careful not to say or do the wrong things this is the email:ehisalextemple@gmail.com

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  2. Dear Ehis, Thank you for your patience with me during my custom spell casting.

    During the middle for February my long time on again off again girlfriend broke up with me. She had some major problems going on in her life at the time and I was receiving some of the blame for them and she just felt it would be better if we were not together. And in typical fashion she handled the break up poorly and completely ignored me as she always did during prior break ups. I also had 2 recent deaths in my family (1 happened before we broke up and the other happened about 2 months later). So I had a lot of stress going on in my life. I hired Seductive Spells around the middle of February; they had a money back guarantee which made me feel that they must be good at what they do. So I went into this thinking that I would have my ex back in about 4 weeks. Well as time dragged on I started to feel as if this was not going to work at all. During all of this she moved, her phone number was disconnected and I thought this was over for good. In fact I decided that I had better get used to being single again and I tried to forget about her. I started hanging out with my friends more, I even wrote to Ehis requesting my money back. Ehis told me that she felt that this would work, that I had to remain positive and she felt that things would turn around. Throughout all of this Ehis always would amazingly get back to me quickly when I would send her an e-mail, usually within a few hours of the email being sent. As I had been pretty negative about this throughout most of the last 4 weeks I decided to follow her advice and let them continue casting for me. I completely tried to put my ex out of my mind as best I could and kept myself pretty busy, something that I had not done much of since we had broken up. Memorial Day night she called me and told me that she wanted us back together, that she missed me a lot, and that I had to let her know right then and there as we were on the phone if we were going to get back together. I was shocked, each time we did get back together before it was always me that made the 1st move; never had she made the 1st move. We have seen each other almost every night since then and things are getting back to where they used to be. I have to tell you it’s still really hard to believe. She is pretty nervous talking around me sometimes since we have gotten back together and I notice that she is trying to be careful not to say or do the wrong things this is the email:ehisalextemple@gmail.com

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